Queens are the custodians in the game of Tarot, they are kind of introvert. They process the experiences of the Pages and Knights to come to a much better understanding of the Element associated with the suit that they are part of, paving the way for you to fulfill the role of King later.
The Queen of Wands is drawn when you (have to) become more aware of the properties of the Wands suit; vitality, optimism and enthousiasm.
Realize what your positive attributes are, and try to enjoy yourself a bit.
You've got plenty to offer to those around you, and it's not wrong to be somewhat aware of that.
You think too positive about yourself at the moment. It's not wise to get stuck feeling great about yourself without making any progress at all.